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debhurts Posts: 1918
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Hi. Let me talk to you, My youngest child died 4 years ago, a mother should not have to bury her child! I never took a drink, he was gone and drinking would not help. When we drink we destroy ourselves and all the people around us we love. What would your brother think about this? He is watching over you, I know they are near us all the time, they send signs, but if you are drunk you will miss these precious signs from your brother. When my son died and it took a month before this started, when he is present, there is a yellow butterfly around me, I sent up a balloon with a note to him, while holding the string a yellow butterfly sat on my hand it never moved, Mikey knew how hurt I was, I was crying, he wanted me to know he is still around. I see shadows in his bedroom area, when he is present. I hope you believe me it is the truth. I got sober at 33. I started drinking at 15. When he died, I was lost and hurt and I am sure you are too. The worst thing that can happen,happened to us,and I am sure millions feel the same way. If you are drunk, you cannot properly grieve and it is so important, there is a group on mdj for the loss of a loved one. It is major that you stop drinking, your bro wouldn't want you to destroy your life, like my son wouldn't want me to drink over his death. You should ask yourself what am I doing, and what will happen to my life, You matter, Your feelings must be worked on, I know it is easy to drink at something, but it is hard as hell to face the truth and deal, and that is what we have to do.  i am not a medical professional or a counselor, please seek a doctors opinion, and seek professional counseling, my opinions are my own and not professional, please use common sense and get appropriate care by a professional. Thanks i am not being rude just responsible. Thanks Debi |
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