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07/14/2012 11:00 PM
mem6526

Why We Feel Nerves

Despite popular belief, nervous sensations are actually quite useful. They date back thousands of years ago to a time when most of what humans didn't know, didn't understand or couldn't predict could literally get them killed. If early humans were fearless enough to walk onto an unfamiliar grassy prairie, for instance, they ended up becoming dinner for a wild animal that was lurking in that grass. If they were fearless enough to eat a lot of an unfamiliar food, they poisoned themselves or got sick.

So humans and other animals developed a built-in fear of the unknown. In a dangerous, uncertain world, it was quite helpful for early humans to be able to react to danger quickly and effectively. This fear response was wired into the nervous system. It is designed to give you a great deal of strength, smarts, and speed when you are under attack. When early humans were confronted by dangerous wild animals, for instance, their fear response helped them to run and hide. It also helped them to find the strength needed to club an animal over the head. It even helped them to play dead, if needed.

We rarely confront wild animals in modern times, but the fear response remains. When you are startled, nervous or stressed, your brain turns on your sympathetic nervous system. This triggers the release of stress hormones such as adrenaline and norepinephrine. From here a cascade of reactions result. These include:

-Increased energy and strength. Your heart rate and breathing rate speed up in an effort to provide more oxygenated blood to your muscles. It pumps sugar into your blood stream so your brain and muscles can burn it easily and quickly, allowing you to run away from or fend off an attacker. This surge of energy and strength has, for instance, allowed mothers to lift cars off their trapped children.

-Sharper vision and hearing. This allows you to see and hear better so you can more easily spot dangerous predators.

-More endurance. During the fear response, the body sweats. This serves as a pre-cooling mechanism so you are better able to run without getting overheated.

-Less pain. During the fear response, the body turns down your perception of pain. It's for this reason that a gunshot victim might not realize he or she has been shot. The pain eventually does kick in -- and in a big way -- but not until the injured person has gotten to safety and the fear response has subsided.

When your fear response is flipped on, your entire body is mobilized to do one thing and one thing only: survive. Many people think of the fear response as a negative response. They want to eliminate it. Your fear response, though, can actually become a strength, one that you can harness and use to your advantage. Isn't it great, for instance, to know that you are capable of much more physical strength than you realize? If you were stuck under a heavy object, that extra strength generated by your fear response could surely come in handy. And if a tidal wave were coming your way, isn't it good to know that you might be able to run faster than you have ever run in your entire life? It's the same if someone were chasing you. You could have speed that you didn't even know you had.

The fear response can also come in handy during non-life-threatening situations. You can turn fear into a strength when delivering a speech or keeping the conversation going during a first date. Rather than being fearful of this response, embrace it and turn your biggest fear into your greatest strength!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jonathan-alpert/why-we-feel- nerves_b_1586190.html

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07/14/2012 11:17 PM  Top
Conn65
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wow, another great article... What a way to put a positive spin on the fear response. Now if only my brain would realize it can be used a good thing Smile
~Contemplation often makes life miserable. We should act more, think less, and stop watching ourselves live. ~Nicolas de Chamfort

~Listen to what you know instead of what you fear. ~
Richard Bach

07/15/2012 12:35 PM  Top
mem6526

Thanks Conn! Smile

07/24/2012 10:56 PM  Top
mem6526

This is a really interesting article that I posted and I wanted to bump it up in case some people did not have a chance to read it! Thanks! Smile

07/25/2012 12:43 PM  Top
claredoll77
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I mean this is basically the response of the evolutionary psychology school of thought (Richard Dawkins et al) to about any issue concerning human behaviour (all our behaviour and life choices largely result from the eat or be eaten, avoid predators, live to reproduce and have the nicest cave on the block etc etc). While it's always useful to remember we are animals like all others, and no doubt we have some very hard wired behaviours, I also remember that I am afraid because I was repeatedly hit, kicked and verbally assaulted by my mother many years of my life. To the point I am deaf in one ear. I think it is more logical in many people's cases to look at their particular lives rather than think of ourselves as mere meat-heads trying to get the safest patch of herbs to eat and avoid a dangerous predator. Lots of ways of looking at things are useful though, TY for posting.

Post edited by: claredoll77, at: 07/25/2012 12:45 PM


07/25/2012 12:57 PM  Top
TennisP
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I am so sorry to read that Clare....

How do you like your job these days?

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07/25/2012 01:42 PM  Top
claredoll77
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It's fine, but that is kinda OT to the topic of the post.

07/25/2012 03:24 PM  Top
TennisP
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Oh sorry just hadnt seen you post much and was wondering if things got better!
F- Face
E- Everything
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R- Recover!
Favorite anxiety book: Mindfulness Through Anxiety and others have helped too like success stories. PM if you need more recommendations!

07/25/2012 03:27 PM  Top
TennisP
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Angel thank you for sharing this article..it's great.
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Favorite anxiety book: Mindfulness Through Anxiety and others have helped too like success stories. PM if you need more recommendations!

07/25/2012 05:49 PM  Top
Conn65
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Clare, I have to agree with you . While some of our fear is an irrational fear and due to how we are wired, some of it is rational... or at least a learned defense due to circumstances we've lived through. Those are sometimes the hardest to work through and convince our minds that we will be ok. I know personally because of abuse from a family member, and also a verbally "harsh" mother, issues with drug abuse in my past, rape and being held against my will by strangers, and also being very emotionally abused have all contributed to the panic I have. And although I know I am my own safe person, it is SO hard to let the guard down and let myself feel safe. Once you've been hurt so much that defense is up as a safety mechanism. So as much as the panic sucks, for me.... the idea of letting my guard down and being hurt again is so much scarier... and for many of us there are real reasons behind our fears. Understanding, compassion, and someone accepting us with all our emotional scars can work wonders though Smile
~Contemplation often makes life miserable. We should act more, think less, and stop watching ourselves live. ~Nicolas de Chamfort

~Listen to what you know instead of what you fear. ~
Richard Bach
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