amandajo
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First of all, anyone that says "Get over it" about ANYTHING has not been through whatever they're telling you to get over....if it were that simple, who wouldn't just GET OVER IT? I even reached a point where I took every piece of advice I got from anyone and when it didnt work, I said "now what?" And usually, they're speechless. The truth is, there is no ONE way to handle anything,and some just have a harder road to travel. Anyone that thinks they could handle the path that was chosen for me, they can have at it! The reason this disorder has such a hold on ALL of us is different from one person to another. Because we are all DIFFERENT, but exactly as God made us. Someone once told me that I was given this life because Im strong enough to live it, i kinda like that. You should think about that, and YES you should love yourself. Dont put a time limit on your problems, I learned that brought a lot of disappointment. I always get annoyed when i hear "take one day at a time" cause what other choice do we have? But I know the feeling of trying to take one day at a time and feeling like several of them are hitting me at once. You sound a little down on yourself, and I dont wanna hear that. Not one person on this earth has walked in your shoes or mine. As long as youre still walking, youre doing something right. I understand that feeling you have when you cant figure out why you USED to do things that you cant. But you need to keep telling yourself that if you USED to be able to do them, then you will again if you take the pressure off of yourself. You are not alone, its a big big world.....and it misses YOU! On the days you feel brave, and whatever you try to do works....pat yourself on the back and then come tell us about it. On those days you just dont get far...come tell us that and WE can pat you on the back  Ive only been coming here for a real short time, but Im finding a huge outlet in being able to put my thoughts down, thats been a big help. So Ill be in and out, I will keep an eye on how things are going for you, Chevy |
