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(((sweetpea012607))) I'm glad that he has the attitude that he will be there for you, no matter what!!! The man we thought was my b/dad (until paternity testing said no) is still very much in contact with me and though he hasn't said those exact words, I think he feels it--just from what he's said. I think his hesitancy is his 2 girls and the family dynamics of all this. (Oh, I favor one of his girls and her daughter REALLY looks like my daughter!!!HMMMMMMMMM.......I have to wander if the test was inaccurate....I really think so. I think he does too! We were both very disappointed. I do email he and his wife. His wife and I have gotten close over the past few years too! He lives out of state and will be coming here in April, he said he's hoping we can get together to meet while he is here....ME TOO!!!! Kinda have to wander if in person we may really feel the connection, ya know!!! I'll let ya know! Just be thankful for the relationship he is willing to have with you! (I don't know that I'd recommend paternity testing, unless you just HAVE to know....I didn't want it. It was HIS family, neither of us wanted to check it out)....if your b/dad is willing to be his, no matter what....let it be!!! (((HUGS))) bgcmom bgcmom
Ronda
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