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monkeyhousemomma Posts: 7
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[b] Ok Hello to all My name is rebecca (ADHD) I'm 24 engaged.. raising two boys 3 and 2 yrs old. Both fathers Ran my three year old is ADHD my two year old has Dandy walker varient and lung issues also has a g-tube, unblanced on his feet. this is my problem..................................... Taylor (3) has been a center of my life most of his life his Bio father came in and out while he was a baby after i got married the 1st time he decided to sign his rights over to my husband for him to adopt tatter. in early 2006 i found out i was prego with baby number two. my husband at the time was stationed in PA. shortly after a car accident due to the care i was needed i was needing someone with me all the time he was pulling 14 hours at one time on base leaveing me to care for a 12 month old when i was suppost to be on bed rest. he called my parents and asked if i could come home we moved back home in FEB 07 after fighting to keep kayden alive and me and my husbands sepration after finding out why he really sent me home. taylors father decides he wants to "Visit" his son once again but not only throwing himself at taylor but a wife and half brother also. at fist the vists started off in my home then i started letting him go with them for a few hours every couple of weeks to over night stays sometimes when i was stuck in the hospital with kayden. his bio father has been mean in the pasted he (taylor) would scream when i would say it was his bio fathers weekend.... he became mean out bursting i thought well he's trying to ajust then things became warse i almost has him potty trained wient to his bio fathers for the weekend end and when he came home we were set back probly about 4 months worth of working with him. it was so upsetting taylor started school last year (head start) and the teacher asking me to come in for a meeting to try to men things between me and bio father i asked him and his wife to join myself and my faincee for the meeting the teacher is telling me about all the things going on in the class room as she is saying it my stomach starts to turn the one thing i was dreading hearing but new it could be possiably he was destracted. behind in speech, acting out due to poeple at school not being able to understand what he was trying to say. before long i was getting report of hitting his teacher and biting students. in witch is mentioned the fact i was ADHD and it wouldn't surprize me if he wasn't either his Bio father played it all off that it was me that he was a prefect angel and could say his numbers and colors at his house prefect well i would to if i was getting beat ( that for a fact i know after he left this last time) (via the wife) Now i'm trying to deal with a three year old that can leave massave buirses on me his 202 pound mother he will get his 2 yr old brother down on the floor sit on him and start pounding him in the head it takes myself and my other half to get him off of him. the school system thinks i'm nuts so did the doctor i kept being told we can't touch him until he's 6 I"m like what the heck this is nuts help this boy before he kills his own brother. what i'm now running into we have him RX as ADHD and on ritalin (sp) and risperal (SP) but even then he out burst so much i been told that some times ADHD and bipolar run together has anyone seen this happen in very young children?????? i'm hitting witz in i too and now and again on ADHD meds but even then we have alot of communication issues.. thank you for readding and listening |
