http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/feed http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/feed en-us Copyright (C) MDJunction.com. All rights reserved. Fri, 24 May 2013 07:50:57 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10692580-it-was-never-my-goal-to-go-without-sex-for-7-yearsfor-the-2x#10692580 I'm clueless as to what to do. ... Sun, 19 May 2013 09:47:14 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10633369-renewed-celibacy#10633369 I think being sex free when a person is not married is the right thing to do. I haven't mastered this but I plan to try real hard an achieve. I once went for three and half years an it was a point of real pride for me... Sun, 21 Apr 2013 08:31:31 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10623810-not-a-choice-it-just-happened#10623810 Hi, Still relatively new to this form, have done a few discussions in the Fibro and anxiety forums. One aspect of my life is that at 25 years, soon to be 26 in June, I have somehow managed to remain untouched. It is not something I am ashamed of, and its not due to lack of sexual education or awareness, I already take birth control to help with PMS. I guess sometimes, ok a lot of the time, I feel as if I am the only one out there. All my friends typically did not make it past 17 without ... Tue, 16 Apr 2013 17:20:08 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10592233-tmjd-or-fibromiliga#10592233 Hi,everyone I am knew 2 the group. I was digenosed with TMJD about a year ago and I have chronic pain that is on going. here is my symptoms. it would be really nice 2 have support in this. my jaw hurts all the time and the pain go's 2 my ears I get hissing,roaring,buzzing sounds, and my ears won't pop. my eye's always hurts pressure pain infront of head and in back of head. My neck always hurt's and it feels like my jaw is pushing back towards my ears and it also,feels like my head,neck,and back... Tue, 02 Apr 2013 12:40:16 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10551667-i-need-support-too#10570762 Hi! My name is Judi and I am the group leader. I missed your post as I have been caring for an ailing father. Would you accept my apology? I am proud of you for staying abstinent outside of a commited relationship. I understand the strugglt to find people of quality; even when you find them you hope you really know them! So I will listen, feel free to share, and I will continue to be proud of you for staying abstinent!... Sat, 23 Mar 2013 16:49:17 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10550530-i-want-to-quit-masturbation-any-ideas-#10550530 Hey, masturbation makes me feel horrible. I can't get off to normal images while masturbating anymore, I have to imagine forcing a woman to have sex. I hate it, but I don't know what to do if something triggers it, and I can't find any way to get my erection down and my mind off it. My dad raped my mom regularly and often in front of me, till I was seventeen. I only realized later that this wasn't what sex is about. I sometimes get a flashback of that happening, and I get an erection, and I ... Fri, 15 Mar 2013 09:25:44 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10544408-new-start-on-a-meaningful-life#10544408 I've had some issues with sexting and sexually acting out. I'm ready for a fresh start on a meaningful, wholesome new life where I don't need validation from the opposite sex... Tue, 12 Mar 2013 16:47:06 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10538898-abstinence-celibacy-really-sucks#10538898 That's right I've been celibate going on 23 years! Its not fun at all for me. And I'm attractive. But I'm gay so that's where its difficult. Women are to put it mildly nicely are mean as snakes. And not real friendly. Other gay women that is. Can't get my foot in the door. Gay women are real clique-ish, you'd have an easier time getting through security at say the Pentagon then to gain entry into a gay womens clique. If your the one who is single the women sure don't make things easi... Sun, 10 Mar 2013 11:59:42 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10494050-hey#10510724 Wow, Maya, we usually get people who are having trouble staying celebate chatting so to have someone who does not want to be celebate is very different. Do I understand that you want to gave sex and he does not?... Mon, 25 Feb 2013 17:07:52 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/712536-reis-masturbation-wrong/limitstart/30#10494040 no it not wrong it like other night i want to have sex with my ex boyfriend and he did not come over to my house so i'm happy that i can stay on my ground and wait for unit i for sure to have sex again right now i just have to give it up cause there no used for it anymore cause my own boyfriend haven't even made chance to spend time with me and now i know what to do is give up no more sex unit my 6 month is over with then if i counted no sex then i'm make my self even more stronger then what i... Tue, 19 Feb 2013 00:18:24 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10470486-my-journey-so-far#10475464 I am so proud of you for sticking to your decision and stayiong strong!... Mon, 11 Feb 2013 10:01:05 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10441341-celibacy-not-my-decision#10443912 Hi, careree! My name is Judi and I am the group leader. Wow, yours is a little different from those we usually have, so I took some time to think this out before responding. The first thing you need to be asking yourself is: Is he worth waiting for without sex until marraige? If so, then stay in the friendship, and then you may need to develop a relationship based on other things. If not sink or cut bait. But you ARE worth waiting for, and having a commitment will make it that much more sp... Wed, 30 Jan 2013 13:09:07 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10426510-new-to-celibacy#10427288 Welcome Chantavia. Yes, this group has chosen to stay supportive of each other, and most of us are people of faith (of one type or another) which helps us through. I am in your boat - I am also a follower of Jesus. My husband and I married as virgins so NONE of the issues that come with sex before marraige were issues for us. I did not allow petting or even putting myself in a comprimising scenario before marraige. We are here to encourage each other in their decisions regardless of what brought... Thu, 24 Jan 2013 19:52:04 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10358516-good-morning#10361600 Thank you for your patience lilicatz. First I am sorry that you are being mistreated and that your spouse uses sex to say he is sorry. I hope you can find the words to tell him that it is mistreating you to say he is sorry he mistreated you. I am sending you by PM a book which you could read together. There is nothing wrong with saying to him that until you work out other things you need to abstain from sex. also he may think that if you 'gave it away so easily before it would not be an issue. ... Sun, 30 Dec 2012 18:05:03 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10180964-my-thoughts-on-abstinence#10292062 i agree with you, hastalapasta. i forgot about this site, because i've been soo busy!... Thu, 29 Nov 2012 19:58:15 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10251111-new-to-the-group#10251111 I have been celibate for only 3 months. I have decided to wait till marriage. I am 27 and I am so tired of sex and no marriage no babies. I have had enough sex. Honestly, I am ashamed of myself. God is a God of order. I feel this is the only way to allow God to work in my life more effectively. I am commited to this. I have tried celibacy before. But each time I break at like 8 months. So I am here for support and friends. Its scary because I am 27. I am a total loner. I don't like to go out muc... Sun, 11 Nov 2012 20:27:22 -0800 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10174881-are-you-needs-being-met#10219386 I should have specified. Nothing has turned me away from this group.... Tue, 30 Oct 2012 14:57:04 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10190160-my-story-is-probably-odd#10190160 I am 34 years old and recently remarried for the second time. Sex has become a reoccuring problem. I am not sure why exactly. But I have decided to just become abstinent in the hope to find happiness and not let my second marriage fail. I have never considered a path like this until recently and will need all the support I can get. I am glad to see these groups actually do exist I havent been sure where to begin.... Sat, 20 Oct 2012 05:53:03 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/1127726-i-need-support-to-stop-masturbation-completely#10181005 What denomination are you? I'm Baptist and to me, it's normal. We're the same age. What I would feel bad about is having sex with a guy then us breaking up, because I'd feel like I wasted my virginity.... Tue, 16 Oct 2012 21:59:52 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/abstinence-celibacy-discussions/general-support/10110434-continence-or-abstinence#10111442 First of all, congratulations on maintaining your virginity. There is nothing like discovering things about your body and your mate's body in an intimate situation. Abstinence can be across a wide board, and its up to you how much of it you want to consider. Just dont limit yuourself so much you explode in self indulgence!... Fri, 21 Sep 2012 11:17:59 -0700