Doing better |
Aug 09 2010 |
Don't know why but since I got my I-pod I have been doing better partly I think 'cause I have been talking to my wife via IM on it on FB & I don't know why that has been helping us outbut it has & for some reason that worries me, but things are better @ least, I wouldn't mind some input from the viewers on what you think of this as long as it is constructive.
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Would like some opinions (I mean those that read p...
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It could be that you can say things on ipod that you couldnt in person. It doesnt just have to be you cant insult somone face to face. I have trouble speaking to my ex but online I can think of things to say and if im uncomfortable I can just make an excuse and leave the conversation.
Well the thing is, is that it is just general bs conversations nothing more, & it also kinda feels like when we first started talking slot again.
It helps. 8 out of 10 excouples admit that they seperated because they were bored of their lives together. They wernt lovers just very good friends.
Sometimes it is better to go back to basics, you are a new you and your marrige has changed so maybe its best to start at the beggining. This might be a rude question but when did you last go on a date together?
Sometimes it is better to go back to basics, you are a new you and your marrige has changed so maybe its best to start at the beggining. This might be a rude question but when did you last go on a date together?
Never thought about it like that thanks that really helped date I would have to say before our son so @ least 3 years lol
Well it cant hurt to have a night out. It wasnt until after my ex left that I asked what her fav colour was. I always thought it was red and I was right but if I had asked the questions then we wouldnt have had so many awkward silences.
It still wouldnt have worked out, there were larger factors but maybe it will help you.
It still wouldnt have worked out, there were larger factors but maybe it will help you.
The only reason that we can't is the fact that we have no one to watch our son otherwise we would.
Then try my old fav. Get candles and any fancy cookwear, order in and pretend that you are in a restaraunt. If you set the mood you can have fun getting to know each other by pretending this is the first time you have ever met.
There are other things you can do but when I had a date with one of my best friends we did this and it worked. We learnt more than we thought we knew and had a great date.
There are other things you can do but when I had a date with one of my best friends we did this and it worked. We learnt more than we thought we knew and had a great date.
Dont tell her though make it a surprise.
I don't role-play all that well saddly but we do have nice homemade dinners after the monster is asleep sometimes.
not roleplay just act like its your first date. Ask the questions you would ask even if you think you know the answer. But most of all just try to make it special. Candles work well.
Dont do roleplay or it will become sexual fast and whether good or bad sex is not what you are after. Well not till later lol.
Try it and see. Whats the worst that could happen? and let me know how it goes.
Dont do roleplay or it will become sexual fast and whether good or bad sex is not what you are after. Well not till later lol.
Try it and see. Whats the worst that could happen? and let me know how it goes.
Well see to me that is roleplaying 'cause it isn't the here & now it is hard to explain 
but that is basically it 
I know I am a pain in the ass when it comes to me 
but @ least I am willing to admit it lol.
but that is basically it I know I am a pain in the ass when it comes to me but @ least I am willing to admit it lol.
Theres a difference is what I mean. Think about what you would have asked if you hadnt known her not pretend you dont know her. I know I used the word pretend but I meant it differently.
Roleplay can get out of hand you act like you are someone else, what I am getting at is that if you ask questions then you might learn more about the other person than you thought you knew which can help renew a relationship.
And you are a pain in the ass but then so am I lol.
Roleplay can get out of hand you act like you are someone else, what I am getting at is that if you ask questions then you might learn more about the other person than you thought you knew which can help renew a relationship.
And you are a pain in the ass but then so am I lol.
I just wouldn't feel comfortable doing something like that though that is the problem.
Well I wont push you but seriously asking questions every now and again works. Just try asking her what her fav colour is, not like I dont know what your fav colour is but more is blue (for example) your fav colour anymore. You may or may not be surprised.
Again Im not pushing the point is more to try and expand your relationship so that it doesnt get stale, not that im saying it is just trying to help.
Again Im not pushing the point is more to try and expand your relationship so that it doesnt get stale, not that im saying it is just trying to help.
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