I know that my main area of stress is my parents.  I'm 30 years old, but I still get that feeling of needing to please them.  I hate that I can't be as happy as I would otherwise be if we didn't live with my mom.  Its not like I can tell her how I feel, or tell my dad that he's the major source of stress in my live.  Trying to make him happy and trying to keep my husband from becoming depressed are difficult.  My husband, I know, doesn't meet my father's expectations, and I want him to.  I want my parents to be as happy with my husband as I am, but they never will be.  I can't control how my husband acts, but it feels like I should be able to change him.  The anxiety of his not doing and acting like they want then causes stress on our relationship.  How do if fix that?  I don't know.  I can't change anyone else, but it still presses on me.