This is funny...to me...probably not to my drug son, however...who was so smug a while ago leaving me the message that I no longer control his mutual fund....bla bla bla....because (I did hear fromthe ex fiance that he got mad at his dad, so I suppose that is why the statements are now not going to go to his dad's afterall, even tho he changed them to go there anyway in April)......

but.....I get a letter from the Mutual Fund.  Since this was held as custodial, and I am the custodian, they won't release any funds to him without my getting this "medalian" signature and send them a letter....so....hmmmmm.....he took out 930.00....and a statement came here the other day, and I saw the the "redemption" was not redeemed after all.....now I know why!

I wonder...does HE know this yet?   I am so shocked I have had no phone calls or harrassment from him about it. 

Now....if he wants the money from it he has to contact me afterall..and perhaps, be NICE.    Then I will make the decision....and the other thing, is that, I won't release any if it is to pay back his bastard father....excuse me....his father puts 850.00 a month into a savings account (don't ask how I know this for anyone who is reading this...please!!).....so, if he thinks I will be concerned with HIM paying his dad back, he is seriously mistaken....his dad is living with and supporting another woman and her four kids...so, guess what?   he can wait for his kid to pay him back....and maybe he will quit enabling him by giving money to him, maybe???   ya think????  

 I heard he had loaned my son 500.00 (not that big a deal for most of us)....and then my son asked for more money, and he said to him: Brandon, you are bleeding me dry.  WTF???   yeah....right...you take vacations, and save tons of money, and have 3 cars in your own name (one that you just bought), and you cannot give your son more without crying about it?  sorry ass.    although, I won't give my son a penny cause he is a fucking addict....and no one should..   but, my ex wants to be the good guy....and he is actually killing our son....as the ex fiance said, he has also been snorting his valium now.  sorry, the kid is not well, those who want to believe he is back to being straight will find out differently...but no one wants to get tough.

no one but me.  he needs help, professional...and perhaps in treatment.  but...since he hates my fucking guts, there is nothing I can do.  my ex...well, he gets to deal with it, but he is an idiot and takes the easy way out...probably his live in is having a shit fit that he has to deal with this son who is 26...i am sure she thought well, he is all done with his kids....it will be me and my kids and him as a little family...ha.   poor girl.   i do not see how she can stand it except he is financially responsibly so takes care of so much for her.  that must be why cause I can't see a whole lot else as he looks way older than he is....and she is way younger....what else could it be?  sorry...I am being mean. I should not, but I reallky cannot help myself right now.

i gotta run out to dinner in a bit with a friend.   but I had to record this one.  I will be surprised if I don't start getting some mean phone calls soon.  sorry, spewed all over the page.