My seperation

Jon is going to agree to standard visitations!  He also agreed that he will get his shit together, ie...NA meetings, AA meetings, counseling, anti-depressants, anger management, get his driverslicense, get car insurance, etc...

In the event that he gets all of it done, we will later agree to go to court and have it amended so that he can see her twelve days a month and I will have her the other 18.  I am so thrilled, this is exactly what I wanted.  Hope all continues to go well, and I hope he isn't pulling one over on me.