I have been seeing alot of parents out there tht have been asking for help. I have trying to get back to alot of you when I can. So here goes in what I have to say..

Life is a funny but it canalso be very stressful, in every aspect when it comes to choosing too due the right thing for our children. Whether or not that both parents are together or not together, in what ever the reasons may be we have to continue to help our children,and support our children and guide down the right path of " LIFE". Everyone goes through hard times to find the paths and the curves that we are all thrown everyday but we has parents manage to get through them ( WHY) because we are stronger and we have the ability to fight in what we (BELIEVE IN WHEN IT COMES TO OUR CHILDREN)!!! we needs to because they can't step up to that plate and say this is what is wrong with me and I need help. Yes maybe in some situtations but not the ones like these. We are our children's back bone and our children's mouth's and we need to stand up and fight for what is right. Whether it is with our husband's wifes, sister, brother, aunt,uncle, friend's or even the school's and doctor's.

We all really need to start asking ourselves what if.

What if our children or myself didn't have these problems, where would we be today.

Or what if there really wasn't help or support out there for all of us that need.

Or even what if we all were the same, it would  be very boring (NOW WOULD IT).

I guess in what I am trying to say is there is alot of What If's and ????"s that we all have and want answer's and this is where we all get them.

Why because we are asking ?????'s with the what if'"s. Without the ???"s and answer's-----------this is when the What if's come in........

Remember don't ever doudt yourself whether it has to do with you or your loved ones. Also remember the three most important things in (LIFE IS)

Hope Faith and Love and the greater one of them all is LOVE.

                                                    Maryanne