I know sometime that it is a big struggle, for some of us out there to take charge in what you feel is right for yourself. I am learning that standing my ground has been helping me in more ways thenone. I have been dealing with a lot in the last couple of months not just with myself, but with my family. And what I mean by family, is my husband and my boy's. Even though my two boy's have disabilities, and sometime that they control themselves in a lot of way's I have to take control of the problem, before it gets worse. And as for my husband he is learning that it has not been easy for me all these years. I am saying that it will get better over night, but it will. And I also understand that there are some that are out there that have disabilities themselves or their husbands, can have the problem as well and you just need to break away and that is fine too. I wish I can say that life came with a manual, but it didn't and boy DOES THAT SUCK!!!!!. Well I have to go now but I will be on and off through out the day.. PLease just give it a shot and try your hardest to stand your ground, if you need help please ask I will be here for when you need it........

                                             Maryanne