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Everythings Starting To Go Downhill

May 08 2012
The prom was nice I enjoyed it a lot and I really havent enjoyed anything since then. My baby's father was released Monday and since he's been home its been hell for everyone. His mother throughhim a welcome home party which is where he started all of the childish things. I thought he would of grown up since last time he was home but I guess some people never learn. About an hour after he got home he asked if I was really having HIS baby, then he stormed off into his room before I could say anything. His mother said it was normal for men to act like this sometimes but he was really mean afterward. He said I was getting too fat and I needed to go on a diet, and he kept saying that he hopes I fall. He was really mean to his mom too. I ended up leaving early and I gave them the excuse that I wasnt feeling good. Today he came into my house and started yelling at my parents, I wasnt home. And earlier he came over to my apartment and I didnt let him in and he literally broke my door and he destroyed the baby's room. He left before the police got there and they said they can 'watch' around the neighborhood but thats all they could do. Im staying with a friend tonight because I dont want to be anywhere that he knows of. I can't keep hiding from him though, hes NEVER been like this before. Its like he's not himself, it scares me because i know what hes capable of and hes showedd me that hes not afraid to put his own child in harm. His mother swears its normal, but Im not stupid. My parents said next time theyre gonna file for a restraining order.

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written by SarahBear21, May 08, 2012
His mother needs to shut up because that shit is NOT normal. He cannot be a part of you and your baby's life if he is acting like that. He could HARM you or your baby. You need to get a restraining order the next time anything happens and I'm glad your parents think so, too. Give your baby your last name and don't put the dad's name on the birth certificate.
written by Izzy87, May 08, 2012
What Sarah said! It is absolutely not normal. I bet you don't have to wait til a next time to get a restraining order though, could you check on that?

written by MadisonN, May 09, 2012
I am in agreement that isn't normal AT ALL and she needs to face the facts. I would deffinatly get a restraining order put on him because like Sarah said he very well could harm you or your baby. I would do what Sarah said don't put his name on the birth certificate and give him your last name because with him acting like that it is not only dangerous for you to be around him but also your baby is at a big risk. I think you are very smart for not staying anywhere he could find you. I hope it all works out!

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