OMG!!!! Now he's on his cell phone... |
Dec 28 2009 |
which I pay for, telling his friend that he went to an Al-Anon meeting last night to 'try to cope with me.' When will this dumbass leave my house??????????????????????????
This is thekind of shit that may well eventually drive me insane.... Need more comments/support, ladies.
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why dont you give him divorce papers if he is abusive, causes you to drink, drives you insane, and you want him to leave?
My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry for the pain that you are dealing with. Many people here have been assaulted and been through divorce, so understand your position. Try to take care of yourself during this difficult time. Believe it or not, you will get past this.
It might help you if you picture yourself in the life you want to lead, after all of this is over. Take care.
It might help you if you picture yourself in the life you want to lead, after all of this is over. Take care.
My advice is get him out of the house.
Does he have family you can contact?
I had to get mine to leave Dec 1st because he was really out there.
His parents helped and he went and stayed with a friend.
You do not want to be under the same roof with him right now.
Find a way to get him out of there.
Damsel
Does he have family you can contact?
I had to get mine to leave Dec 1st because he was really out there.
His parents helped and he went and stayed with a friend.
You do not want to be under the same roof with him right now.
Find a way to get him out of there.
Damsel
No family, unfortunately... I did check with the State on-line today. I can download the paperwork and file the divorce forms myself, but it will still cost $400. (OMG--the last time I got divorced here, I think it was $68!) Either way, this situation will not last, and I will get him out with a bulldozer if I have to!
Yorkie-- I do picture myself in a better life. (Can anything be worse than this?) P.S. Love my dogs!
Yorkie-- I do picture myself in a better life. (Can anything be worse than this?) P.S. Love my dogs!
Friends? You think this man has friends?
I don't know what cell phone company you have, but my average cell bill costs as much as a mani-pedi & a case of fraps; shut his phone off and spend the $$$ on YOU.
Thank you, Mfox. I may just do that. You have made me laugh tonite. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mfox: Excuse an old woman, but what are 'fraps'?
lord i feel bad for u ... 
Warhorse,
Contact an attorney immediately. Online legal paperwork is there for people who will work with one another to a mutual understanding. I am just guessing here that he is not going to come to a mutual understanding. I cannot express to you enough to retain the services of an attorney especially if there are any assets such as a house, boat, cars. Any debt such as credit cards, house boat, cars. You need a professional to help you extricate yourself from this mess. Just so you know , It will get worse before it gets better. Do not hesitate to call the police if he physically assaults you. Do it each and every time. Take your name of any co-owner credit if you can't lower the availablre amount to the lowest possible. Close out or take out half of any joint accounts before he does or you will be taken. I worked in a bank where a woman came and closed out every joint account and 5 minutes later her husband walked in to do the same. thing. Pm me if you have any questions.
Contact an attorney immediately. Online legal paperwork is there for people who will work with one another to a mutual understanding. I am just guessing here that he is not going to come to a mutual understanding. I cannot express to you enough to retain the services of an attorney especially if there are any assets such as a house, boat, cars. Any debt such as credit cards, house boat, cars. You need a professional to help you extricate yourself from this mess. Just so you know , It will get worse before it gets better. Do not hesitate to call the police if he physically assaults you. Do it each and every time. Take your name of any co-owner credit if you can't lower the availablre amount to the lowest possible. Close out or take out half of any joint accounts before he does or you will be taken. I worked in a bank where a woman came and closed out every joint account and 5 minutes later her husband walked in to do the same. thing. Pm me if you have any questions.
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