Head scratcher

So this past weekend my wife went away with her boyfriend she told me where she was going, called to check in on our daughter, told me actually a few of the places she was at. I dont know if its torub it in or what. Yesterday she sent me a message asking me to apply to a job on her behalf.......now last year at this time while we were happily married or so i thought i applied to a job for her on her behalf and she got it! It was a huge step up for her she was working with the government now  it was a nice pay increase great benefits and we both were extremly excited. So excited in fact we booked a trip to Disney, talked about having another child, even looked at buying a house. Little did i know that my world would come crashing down in a few months time.

So fast forward to yeseterday she asks me again to apply saying "i know its the last thing you want to do for me but i need this job and your the only one who can get it for me." Well thats all well and fine if we were still together. I wont say married since we are STILL married. But then she has the nerve to post on her fb page to all "our" friends and family that she is in a relationship with her BF. Really your going to ask me to do this for you and then turn around and disrespect me by posting your status as in a relationship on facebook.

Our daughter is sick she has pnuemonia so i took her to the Dr's spent about 60.00 on medication and the co-pay for the dr's and I she asked if i wanted money i said well yeah it'd be nice if you pay half if you have it.....she said well money is tight right now and i do not have it. But yet you just went away for the weekedn with your BF and two weeks ago spent 97.00 on a hotel room.

I just do not get why they do what they do. I mean i would think a sain person would understand the bounderies of a break-up/ divorce and respect them she just crosses them and expects me to be there to catch her i guess. I dont get it. I sit there a rack my brain trying to get in her head. And no-one else see's this but me.....that's the hard part. I think i may be the trigger.