|Apr 29 2010|
Went to the P doc with my wife again. I had to ask him a question that my wife and I debated for quite some time about.
The debate was should I go to every visit?
I was saying I shouldn't and here is why.
I feel my wife dealing with her bi polar may be really convincing herself that she needs to second guess herself about everything. Like her dependence is start disappear and she is starting to become a person that can't stand on her own. I do not want this, I want to be there for her and take care of her but I want her to be her own person. So when we go to the docs in deed he gets my view points but I am afraid that my wife may skew her answers because I am there. Although I know she is always a 100% honest with me I feel it may be involuntary.
Of course my wife disagrees completely and ...........................
So did the P Doctor!
So although my theory made sense to me it was very wrong. From my wifes perspective and her doctors perspective an understanding supportive spouse should be involved every step of the way.
I can live with that.
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