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View Profile My journey through bipolar disorder...Wondering how to survive, both financially and physically...Worrying, Praying, Doubting, Straying...A flimsy feather in the hurricane of life...But still knowing that there is a Rock Who is greater than I and believing, deep down, that He is with me still...



May 11
2008

Where did I lose y'all?

When I first found out I was bipolar, this group was my lifeline. Over the past month or so, nothing I've contributed has warranted much response or discussion. If y'all don't want me around, that's fine. It is just sad to me that I thought I found a place where I could help others and where others could help me....only to be be basically ignored. It's okay though. It is nobody's fault other than my own. My opinions should be kept to myself. I wish you all well. Happy trails.



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I care what you have to say
written by norma, May 11, 2008
Beccaboo...i care what you have to say....maybe some people are too shy to post but, read what you say. And sometimes they don't comment because what you said might be something they had thought of and you have already said it.

Your opinion and responses mean something here. hugs...Norma
written by Beccaboo, May 11, 2008
Thank you, Norma. And thank you to everyone who has supported me today. Blessings.
Very interested
written by GoingHome, May 11, 2008
Beccaboo, I'm new and trying to understand my husband. I am on the famiy support group and am learning so much through the postings here from family with bipolar members. I learn I am not alone. But from people, like yourself with bipolar, I am learning more about what my husband is going through. and that is so valuable to me!

Norma's right, people might be shy or feel it's been said before. I know for me I'm just getting used to 'my words' being online. Sometimes I feel confident to post; other times I feel overwhelmed.

Keep posting; I will keep reading.

-Susan ((Hugs))
written by NewDayDawning, May 12, 2008
I read lots of posts that I find interesting and enlightening. I only rarely add comments of my own. I think it's a mistake to interpret lack of comments as lack of interest. Don't take it personally -- you really don't know what motivates other people to post or not post here. Most likely they are caught up in their own life dramas and their lack of posts is no reflection whatsoever on you or what you have to say.
I'm probably not the best person to offer help
written by Suz, May 13, 2008
It's hard for me to try to offer help because I am not Bipolar or in the Bipolar groups to truly understand your situation. You may not know it, but your diary postings show up in the Permanently Disabled Group and probably every other group you joined. I sympathize with your struggles and encourage you not to give up, but I agree with New Day Dawning that not everyone that reads your post may be the best person to offer you help and that lack of comments doesn't mean lack of interest. I send you many hugs. smilies/smiley.gif
written by Beccaboo, May 13, 2008
Thanks you Suz, and all who offer support. This is indeed a daily struggle, and I have had a rough several days. But I'm a little better tonight, and I'm always grateful for the more pleasant times.
Very familiar with bipolar
written by dawnetteb04, May 20, 2008
Hello,
I read your posts and it seems very much like home. I am divorced from my husband of four years; about 11 years ago. Our son has bipolar and I am still friends with his father. I know what you are going through.
My ex was told to love himself first, before finding love. He bought himself flowers, went on walks and just did things (whether he liked it or not) to feel better. OF course he takes several meds, but praying, going to church and having the support of family has meant the world to him. I'm working with my son, who is 11, to combat this disorder early on.

Look forward to hearing from you.

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