You have to ask youself everyday. Who is the addict?  My husband walks around like there is nothing wrong.  Makes me wonder sometime if its me. Now here I am again at the very end of my rope.  Hey its not even a rope anymore its just air.  I have lost everything I have so far I don't know what esle I can do.  Lets see he takes my last bit of change, my family has no idea he is the addic that he is.  Oh not to mention he works when it wants to apparently cuz I never get anything from him.  I feel that I should just out him to the family and maybe that way he might at least try but I am just confused.  I did tell his brother and that didn't help any not at all.  His brother told his mother and sisters and there now acting like we are leaches I know great.  What is there left for me to do?  I am tired and scared